Monday, February 9, 2009

My husband



It begins and ends with you....
Almost 14 years going strong



I cannot imagine my life without Brian. He is a wonderful husband, friend and provider. God blessed me so much the day He brought him into my life in 1997.

Friday, September 26, 2008

Photography

I am doing photography on the side.

Here are some photo's I have taken!

Becky Simmons































































Noah







I had to post a little blog on my nephew. He is so precious! This is Noah Brown, my sister's little boy. I keep him during the day and he is my little prince! Meet Noah born April 5 , 2008!

Friday, August 8, 2008

I've been tagged!

Ok, So I was tagged by Nicole 2 weeks ago and just realized it! (I'm a little slow!) Here we go

1. Where have you traveled? Well, all my life I played softball and at 13 years old I was picked up by a travel team. Playing softball we traveled to
*Wide World of Sports, Orlando, FL
*Coon Rapids, MN
*Sacramento, CA
*West Palm Beach, FL
*Rock Hill, South Carolina
*Evansville & Indianpolis, IN
*ALL OVER GA
*ALL OVER TN
*Panama City, FL
*North Carolina
*Lake Tahoe, NV
*Amarillo, TX
And probably some I have forgotten~

2. Where would you like to live? If I could load up my family and move it would be to Wyoming or Montana. I am not a summer person, and I hate humidity which GA is so bad for! I could live in fall and winter year around!

3. What is your decorating style? I love the "country look". A log cabin, black bear rug, deer bed spread! But right now it doesn't look that way! Maybe one day!

4. How many times have you been married? ONCE and I hope thats it! I have an amazong husband of 11 years! (May 16, 1997)

5. What is your favorite color?I love black and any blue!

6. What is your proudest accomplishment? BEING A MOTHER and WIFE!!!!

7. What would we be absolutely shocked to learn about you? Ummm, thats a hard one. Let's see I have no idea. My life has pretty much been an open book. The only thing I can think of is my husband and I only knew each other 1 1/2 months when we got married?! And who says you have to date or be engaged for a long period of time!

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Icecream is good for the soul!

This was sent in an email to me.
Last week, I took my children to a restaurant. My six-year-old son asked if he could say grace. As we bowed our heads he said, "God is good, God is great. Thank you for the food, and I would even thank you more if Mom gets us ice cream for dessert. And Liberty and justice for all! Amen!" Along with the laughter from the other customers nearby, I heard a woman Remark, "That's what's wrong with this country. Kids today don't even know how to pray. Asking God for ice cream! Why, I never!"
Hearing this, my son burst into tears and asked me, "Did I do it wrong? Is God mad at me?" As I held him and assured him that he had done a terrific job, and God was certainly not mad at him, an elderly gentleman approached the table. He winked at my son and said, "I happen to know that God thought that was a great prayer." "Really?" my son asked. "Cross my heart," the man replied. Then, in a theatrical whisper, he added (indicating the woman whose remark had started this whole thing), "Too bad she never asks God for ice cream. A little ice cream is good for the soul sometimes."
Naturally, I bought my kids ice cream at the end of the meal. My son stared at his for a moment, and then did something I will remember the rest of my life. He picked up his sundae and, without a word, walked over and placed it in front of the woman. With a big smile he told her,
"Here, this is for you. Ice cream is good for the soul sometimes; and my soul is good already."
Hug Your Kids

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Blessings in disguise!

Yesterday was so beautiful! I got in the pool with the girls and while laying on the float I started thinking about my life. In high school I played softball (ALL THE TIME) and had several scholarship offers to different colleges. I had every intention on going to school to become a Trauma Nurse. Then my senior year Saturday Oct 14 1995, my daddy had a massive heart attack. He came home after a week in the hospital. Then a week later while I was at school, he was rushed to St. Josephs hospital where in one hour he was "shocked" 20 time. (He was shocked so much that he had burn marks on his chest and bald spots on his head) He was pronounced dead twice, though he lived. (I came home to find a "goodbye note" from daddy. I believe in his heart, he did not think he would see us here again. He told me in the letter how proud he was of me, how proud he was to be my daddy, to help mama out and take care of my little sister. Oh and to graduate in '96.) For a month he was on life support. We spent day after day at the hospital. The doctors gave him no hope. At first it was, "Mrs. Alexander your husband has maybe 20 minutes" (our preacher even left to prepare his funeral) Then it was, "He'll never leave this hospital without a new heart", and lastly "He has maybe 2 years to live." When my dad left the hospital, he had 20% of a working heart.

By the time I went back to school, I had missed well over a month. I was so far behind. Dad came home sometime around the end of November. We hit hard times. Mom was a stay at home mom, daddy was out of work now (and would never go back after this) and I was in 12th grade, my little sister in 6th. We had very little food and no money. Then one night there was a knock on the door. Two people we had never met were standing there. They told us they were from New Hope church and had seen the sheet on our house (my uncle spray painted a white bed sheet with the words "PLEASE PRAY FOR HOWARD, ST. JOSEPHS HOSPITAL", and hung it on the front of our house with a spot light) they had wanted to do something for us. They came in with what looked like a hundred bags of food and other needs. They were at the time our angels. God had blessed us in a time that we had never been in before!

Every day I would go to school, and check out because I was "sick". I got further behind but I didn't care. I was so scared of losing daddy, that I did not want to leave him. I was ready to quit school when my softball coach took me in her office and said, "Becky, you have come so far. You have 6 months left of school. Finish it, if not for yourself, for your mom and dad." I told her of my fears of being away during the day (thats when everything had happened and being at school brought back those terrible feelings) She suggested night school. I could go from 4:30 until 10:00. SO, thats what I did. I even finished school early (in March) and got a job working at the local "Country Store". My principle was so kind enough to let me participate in all the senior activities even though I was not supposed to. In June 1996 I wore my cap and gown and walked with my class. There sat my MAMA and DADDY cheering for me. (My sisters 6th grade graduation was that same day in the morning and we were all there cheering for her)

I decided against college. I just did not want to leave. So I continued to work and play ball. In March 1997 I met Brian. April 1 was our first date, May 1 he proposed and May 16 we got married. I never had patience! Haha. Kayley came along January 5, 2002, the day we buried my pawpaw.

Fast forward to the future, its July 16, 2008. Almost 13 years later my daddy is still here. There's been alot of times we thought we would lose him, alot of up's and down's, but God has blessed us. Before the heart attack, Sundays were another day. If we went to church ok if we were on a ballfield even better. After the heart attack Daddy did get a new heart, from the Lord. We were in church every Sunday. We lived for the Lord. He always said God was not finished with him, that He left him here for a reason and if it was to lead just one person to the Lord then it was worth it all. Well he has seen his 2 daughters, son-in-laws, and now his granddaughter get saved. In fact, daddy played apart in leading all of us to the Lord and he got to Baptize Kayley. (Daddy was called to preach in January 2001)

13 years ago I was determined to go to college and to help save peoples lives. But you know what, though my life is nothing like I thought it would be, its better than I ever dreamed it COULD BE. I thank God for my life, the way it turned out. My daddy's heart attack changed the track of all of our lives. I might have went to college, and never would have been at Charlies ball field that night I met Brian. Kayley wouldn't be here and most importantly, we very possibly may not have had the Lord in our lives.

I've never had a career, I've always been a "housewife". I homeschool Kayley and babysit part time. I am so thankful for my life and the way it has turned out. I feel I am more successful than I could have ever been. I am richer then I could have dreamed with my family, friends, and Salvation.

There is a REASON FOR EVERYTHING. Even through the trials and tribulations, the mountains and the valleys, God has a plan. And for me it was a BLESSING IN DISGUISE.

Monday, July 14, 2008

The Baptism and Dedication

So Sunday July 13 Kayley was Baptized and Noah was dedicated. But let me tell you what happened the night before. Kayley had 2 of her friends over Nicole and Kodie. There were upstairs playing and Kayley told them about her asking the Lord into her heart and all about it. Well, they called Charity up there, then my dad and Nicole and Kodie accepted the Lord as there Saviour! So not only was Kayley baptized, so were the girls! It was a great day yesterday. To see my little girl do that gives me peace. It's like Brian said last night, if something happens to him he KNOWS he will see Kayley again. Alot of people do not have that assurance.

QUOTES

ON FAITH

"Faith never knows where it is being led, but it loves and knows the One who is leading."
Oswald Chambers

ON MARRIAGE

"In marriage, being the right person is as important as finding the right person."
Wilbert Donald Gough

"It is not marriage that fails; it is people that fail."
Harry Emerson

ON SALVATION:
"Salvation comes through a cross and a crucified Christ."
Andrew Murray


"Be careful [anxious] for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. Those things, which ye have both learned, and received, and heard, and seen in me, do: and the God of peace shall be with you"
Phil 4:6-9